I have no idea what this about. I was going thru my news feed and this caught my eye. I don't know if this for real or a joke. Check it out!
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I'm back to posting after traveling and working all over the country.
Over the past two years, I have notice a trend in the community at with least gurus or people trying to sell products, that has been to push the term "natural" or promotion lines such as "You Don't Need Lines" or even to outright bash other companies and gurus that teach opinion openers or canned openers.
The problems that I have with folks doing that is that at the same time in promotion or advertisement, they are saying "I'm ... from the Game
As for me, I absolutely hate opinion openers, if fact I hate opening, but I open sets and I use opinion openers. Why? Because you can't get the girl, if you don't open. A genuine opinion opener engages you into a real conversation with an attractive woman or a group of attractive women, even a canned opinion opener that has been on the internet for ten years does the same thing.
I ran the Gay Cats Opener for a month before I started getting any type of positive response, but each time I did it learned something new about how I was approaching such as those annoying little nuances that you should be paying attention such as vocal projection and body language.
At least for me, without that experience I would learn many subtle little things that actually opens a set versus the words that are being said.
I have five open opinion openers that I came up with that are really genuine and unique to me that help me gain some insight to the people opening or talking to and I also have five canned opinion openers memorized that I use when my mind goes blank.
Yet, I hate still hate opinion openers and opening. But you gotta do what you gotta do if you wanna get whatcha want.
No matter what day of the week it is, no matter what type of location you are at, there is booty dancing. Sunday thru Sunday in bars, lounges, pubs, clubs, weddings, house parties, concerts, schools, and even outdoors, there is booty dancing. It has come so commonplace that schools are even trying to prevent it at their dances. It's so prevalent that men just go to bars (not strip clubs) to see girls booty or even try to booty dance with them.
Seriously, how many times have you gone out and seen guys just lined up at the bar or against the wall trying to grind with girls? Every single night.
How many times have those ever gone home with any of those girls? Never.
Or even better, how times have you seen a guy actually approach a girl, dance with, grind with her, and leave with her? Never (There are exceptions to this, but for the most part probably never.)
How times has it happen to you before discovering Social Arts? Probably a lot.
How times has it happen to you after discovering Social Arts? Probably a lot.
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JUST KIDDING !!!
I couldn't resist.
Anyway, on serious note, I really don't care about this phenomenon, because it will always exist, all I care about is how to get around this stick point.
First of all, as most you all know, women go out to have fun. It's that simple. And we all know that we are going to be tested from simple to complex. And booty dancing is a test.
Why? Because what guy doesn't like a girl grinding her butt in his crotch. You have to remember women are out having fun so probably grind with a couple guys before you and will grind with others after you. For some guys this makes their night and probably get a number (a fake). It is a test because booty grinding throws you (males) into a sexual state and everything that know starts to go out the window because your basic primal instincts are starting to take over. To you, it's on; to her, she only dancing even though it's sexual. Essentially, booty grinding with a girl is the equivalent to making out with a girl in a club. Plus, if you booty grind with a girl, you doing exactly what every guy has done and will do in the future.
So what do? If a girl ask you to dance or girl grabs you pulls you onto the dance floor, what do? This simplest thing to do is dance with her and if you can dance or if you can only dance a little you can work this to you favor by not letting her grind you or simply just lead her or can even punish her for trying to grind you by pushing her away. The object here is to keep her chasing you or taking control of the situation and the lead the interaction to where you want it to go.
Because I subscribe to Mystery's and Style's viewpoint of staying away from the dance except for when I just really want to dance, I have been experimenting with a couple of quick banter lines that have been working for me.
1. This is a no booty dancing zone, break the rules and you will be punished. (Make the punish whatever you want. My favorite is a playful slap on her bottom.)
2. Yes, I would love to dance. (Hold one finger up in front of her and say:) But I not some piece of meat that you can get your jollies off by grinding up on me.
3. Are you fuc*ing nuts?! You're a little perv. (Said playfully)
(This actually came out of my mouth at Lima to this extremely cute Asian HB I was in set with, she ate it up)
Anyway, that's my two cents on booty dancing.
"When a girl says she just want to be friends...she's means she wants you to do stuff for her and not put out". (Hyde - That's 70 Show)
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So I was going to thru my email this afternoon trying to catch up on the reading i had not done over the pass month because I was out of the country. Most of the time, I just delete them if the headline or subject does not appeal to me. This time I grouped them by guru, pua, school, or blog. What I realized is that 90% of them were just marketing with no substance.
This is a shame. Two years ago, the emails were filled with useful information, but now nothing. So I just unsubscribe. There no use of signing up for anyone email lists. What pissed me off the most were the marketing emails that I was getting from guys that I have already bought products from and guys who's private forums I'm on.
So here's my one piece of advice: Just Unsubscribe from any community email lists that you are on, they marketing materials only geared to make you feel that you have not accomplished anything and to promote the next best thing. There is no silver bullet. It's all on you, you are the silver bullet so stop reading this and Sarge On.
Wow !!!
It has been a longtime since I've written. I admit, that I have gotten lazy. Well, lazy about writing. In fact, I spent the last six months working in 5 states and last month on vacation.
With that said, I did have my share of adventures.
So as of today, I back to blogging. I PROMISE !!!
Because it's fun and also so darn funny with the random things that happen when you out being social.
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