My Relationship with Opinion Openers

Over the past two years, I have notice a trend in the community at with least gurus or people trying to sell products, that has been to push the term "natural" or promotion lines such as "You Don't Need Lines" or even to outright bash other companies and gurus that teach opinion openers or canned openers.

The problems that I have with folks doing that is that at the same time in promotion or advertisement, they are saying "I'm ... from the Game". It's kind of ironic that someone who has participated in the community and use structured game, opinion openers, and canned materials to be trying to sell you on not doing the things they did to become the "naturals" that they are now.

As for me, I absolutely hate opinion openers, if fact I hate opening, but I open sets and I use opinion openers. Why? Because you can't get the girl, if you don't open. A genuine opinion opener engages you into a real conversation with an attractive woman or a group of attractive women, even a canned opinion opener that has been on the internet for ten years does the same thing.

I ran the Gay Cats Opener for a month before I started getting any type of positive response, but each time I did it learned something new about how I was approaching such as those annoying little nuances that you should be paying attention such as vocal projection and body language.

At least for me, without that experience I would learn many subtle little things that actually opens a set versus the words that are being said.

I have five open opinion openers that I came up with that are really genuine and unique to me that help me gain some insight to the people opening or talking to and I also have five canned opinion openers memorized that I use when my mind goes blank.

Yet, I hate still hate opinion openers and opening. But you gotta do what you gotta do if you wanna get whatcha want.

Took a Break

This week, I took a break from trying to be a pua. The interesting thing was beside not following my rule of six approaches a day, everything was basically the same. I approach and talk to women and even got three numbers this past week and shit load of shots last night. This is my assessment of what happen is that I took the anxiety and pressure off me, but the basic behavior stuck with me. But starting Monday, I will be back on my game.

Anyway, I was hanging out at Cloud last night with some friends checking out the ladies with my friends. A buddy of mine was dancing with a chick (BAlexis) that usually hangs out with him and tags along with us. She has a hot ass body, but her face is ok, and her attitude sucks, but guys fall all over her. They come over and everyone says hello and go into conversation mode (work, where to go, blah, blah,blah) and generally having a good time. BAlexis stood around and a couple guys tried talking to her and bought her drink and she just stood not saying anything until they left. I grab her by the arm and said "Wanna join a our fucking conversation?" to which her response surprise, her eyes open up and she said apologetically, "Oh, I am sorry". Then she goes into rap about going tanning, so I threw in a "Well, it does look even, but you still look nice" to which she went into a "Really, do I look like a fool ... blah, blah, blah" to which all my buddies were like "naw, you look great ... blah, blah, blah" and gave a another smartass remark, "Well, at least it didn't mess up your tatoo" and rub it which was on the small of her which led us into dancing. After a couple of songs, I said "I'm jetting" to which she replied while opening her cellphone, "Hold up, what's your number?" I gave it to her and turn away and she says "Here's mine", she tells me and put it in my cellphone, gave her a hug and a kiss on the lips.

What amazed me about this interaction is this all happen with a girl whom I have known for about 4 months and have said a total of maybe a 100 words to. Other than being a little cocky, I really don't know really happen in this interaction. The one thing I did notice was I was not thinking about what I'm going to do next and that I did not care about what happen. I guess when I took expectation out of the game, I was more relaxed.