Tuesday, June 14, 2005

It's My Life

I have been catching up on my pua reading over the past few days since I virtually did no reading or prepping last week. On Thundercat's site, Seduction Lair, a couple of guys took a beating for posting the pictures of their pick-ups. This got me thinking about my pick-ups lately and why I doing what I'm doing. For me, it more of finding the woman that I want. I don't think it's wrong to pick-up, flirting, date, or even married someone that you yourself find attractive and to be a match for you even if your friends and everyone else does not find her attractive.

For me, it's more about getting what I want. It's been drilled in my head that women are the chooser even when you have used are your skills and techniques to meet, attract, flirt, and seduce them. Fine. No problem. I can see that and understand that. But what about, what I want. Why, should I settle for the someone who is miserable and a all around nasty person. Been there done that.

I think one of the reason why my success are one or two per week is because while I do use a throwaways approaches to get me amped up and use to talking and putting myself out there at the beginning of day or night, I actually step-up my game/performance when I see someone I really interested in, but even after the initial approach I can tell within a couple of minutes if I really want to continue talking with said women. Now, this maybe a hindrance to my game because I'm not approaching everything.

Over the past few months, I read about and seen many men approach women that I would not approach. Some would say that this is limiting my experience and I won't argue too hard with that. My view point is if I approach women that I want and get rejected, a number, a kiss, or a roll in the hay then it worth it because it was with women that I wanted and they fit what I believe I want in my life. It's about my life not everyone else's.





2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Wow. I think you actually *get* it.

Still an AFC said...

I hope so.